Is it legal or a breach of confidentiality when atty has spouse read my financial POA without my permission?

the facts aren't entirely clear. If you are saying that your wife worked for the lawyer, how did you not know this? Perhaps you can reword your...

Can the Veterans administration take all my back pay for a loss in 1984 of a foreclosure?

It sounds like there was a deficiency from the sale of the home. The VA are stewards of the government's (i.e. taxpayers) money, so they can, and...

You can't just leave. You need to work through the chain of command and seek medical treatment. Realize that if you admit you had depression before...

Neither. You should return now. You are breaking the law, and none of us is going to advise you to continue to break the law. The long term,...

Could I get away with claiming illegal search and seizer?

The police pulled you over, and when the ran your info it showed you were expired. They then did an inventory of your car, which is legal. And you...

you can call Social Security and the VA. But the odds are slim IMO.

You probably can't. You either have a medical issue that bars you, or you have to admit that lied, which also bars you.

How do we get the help my husband needs? Along with if he gets discharged, what kind of discharge?

If he has mental health issues he needs to seek help. He won't get a Dishonorable Discharge. That is a lie. If his illness makes him ineligible for...

I don't think any of us can say why this happened, but I have moved your question to employment law.

They can extend you beyond your EAS to court-martial you, but not for an adsep.