My daughter turned 18 and is a junior in highschool with an IEP. Do her father and I have any legal rights and or responsibiliti

Your question is confusing because you don't say whether you and the father are married.

I have been contacted by someone who says they are with the FBI. they will not show me their credentials. Am I being scammed?

Fairly common scam. Tell them you won't say anything and want a lawyer, which is what you should say even if by chance it is legit.

Is there a way to get a refund or sue for malpractice

This sounds like a case that would be better handled through your State Bar's Fee Arbitration process.

I agree with Mr. Rixon. The fact pattern is confusing. But given the number of lawyers you have already consulted I doubt you are going to get a...

How?

pro Bono Criminal law attorneys are called Public Defenders. He will be appointed one if he cannot afford private counsel.

Yes. It is called trespassing. It is illegal.

Can I request to speak to a judge?

Mr. Rafter is correct. The judge will not speak to you except in open court during a hearing.

I agree with Mr. Rafter. While possible, a waiver is unlikely given your conviction.

Your bigger concern should be that you defrauding the government of massive amounts of money, and just admitted to it on the Internet. But, yes,...

Can my veteran husband take everything from me even if domestic violence and him being charged with assault against me?

I have changed this from Military Law to Domestic Violence, as his status as a veteran isn't an issue. You need to contact Domestic Violence...