I'm on probation they just legalize recreational marijuana where I live am I allowed to smoke legally?

It is up to your PO, but I doubt it.

Can I get my case thrown out for police not following protocol?

This sounds like perfectly normal police work.

How do I handle it?

You hire a lawyer to defend yourself.

In all likelihood your contract with them allows them to terminate your son. If they didn't, they could be sued if he injured another student.

Depends on your PO, but probably not.

You have no grounds for a lawsuit. They are a private company and can restrict access.

I'm horrified how PCH Publishing Clearing House can toy with you, I have lots of proof! I want to Sue

Sounds like you have been scammed, but not by PCH.

What to do?

Speak to your command and discuss a family care plan. Not sure what you are looking for or asking.

It is not public record until and unless there is a conviction in court.

Depends. 21 and 19? Yes. 17 and 15? No.