None of us knows your case as well as your PD, and none of us is going to second guess their advice.

It looks like you answered your question. You will be suspended and have a tribunal. If criminal charges are brought you will go to court.

This is a question for your finance office. Not really a legal issue.

You cannot sue for a violation of HIPAA. But you can report it.

Your lawsuit would be against your ex, not the seller of the car.

Yes it is "legal." Now you need to hire an attorney to fight the charges.

Options for what? What are you trying to do? We aren't mind readers.

When you insult people you will get in trouble, with your mom or the school.

She isn't going to want to hear this but what she should do is dump her boyfriend.

Charges are not magically dismissed. Retain an attorney to work on your behalf.