A judge ruling against you is not an indicator of bias. Unless you retain an attorney you are really in for an uphill battle.

No. She would be considered a runaway.

This is not a legal issue. work with the postmaster.

Of course not. It is an assault and you can go to jail.

If your mom said no, the answer is no. He can be charged with a myriad of crimes.

Nothing in your post presents an unlawful or improper arrest.

As noted, you cannot get out of the contract.

You can be considered AWOL, and they can separate you. Whether they will or not is completely up to the unit.

None of us knows the answer to this question.

You would be arrested and go to jail. It is a crime.