There are a myriad of potential charges that you can discuss with the DA.

He will be living in the barracks. He will only get on base housing if you two are married. Your mom can't sign emancipation orders. Only a court...

A child can choose who they want to live with when they are 18.

It is perfectly legal for the cop to say this. On the other hand, it is now your call as to what to do. Lawyer up.

The only (and best) thing you can do for him is hire an attorney.

Call your insurance carrier..................

None of us knows your divorce lawyer but you can certainly ask them.

Same. Answer. As. Before............................

Why did he pull you over? Probably because you were being a jerk.

I think your question is whether you can recover your attorney fees, which is a great question to ask your attorney.