Hard to guess what your PO and the court would do, but if I were a betting man I would bet they would violate you.

Not sure what you are asking but if you have a lawyer you should ask them.

Only if your parents say it is ok.........

Putting aside for a moment why you are still with someone who strangled you, the DA can still choose to prosecute even if you do not want to proceed.

Yes if you stole you can be prosecuted, so you need a local attorney.

Yes the cops can charge you if they have information that you stole a pool cue. If they do, hire an attorney.

Of course it is legal....................................

Why don't you just go speak to him and see how he wants to resolve it?

The only thing you can sue them for is another sandwich.

If you can find a lawyer that will take your money to sue for basically nothing, sure.