Adults are not allowed to have sex with children.

In a case such as this the state is considered the victim, not you. But anyone who feels they are a victim of a crime can retain local counsel and...

You cannot go around your COC. They are the ones who process discharges.

You will spend more suing them then you will ever recover.

You will spend a ton of money on a lawsuit. You will claim they didn't give you the paperwork, they will say they did. And a judge will have to...

If you were on active duty at the time (AGR) you cannot sue them in civil court for harassment. You may able to petition for a retirement through...

In all likelihood any such lawsuit would cost far more than you could ever recover.

Before you call the police or DA and tell them you lied on your boyfriend you need to speak to a local attorney. Lying to the cops is a serious crime.

You cannot sue for a violation of HIPAA so no need for an attorney.

It is impossible to predict what a judge will do, but you are obviously in much better position if you are represented by counsel.