You have no grounds for a lawsuit IMO.

You have no grounds to sue the PO. You can try to sue your hopefully now ex-BF.

This is a general Q&A site. In order to get an answer you have to ask a question. If you are charged with a crime, you need to retain an attorney.

If it is worth your time and money you can sue in small claims court for the money you spent.

IMO there are no damages to sue them for.

What do you want to do? If you push it they could fire you. Or you can simply continue to gently remind them.

You cannot move out until you are 18....

Respectfully, your post makes no sense. If you file court pleadings like this you will lose, plain and simple.

Nothing in your post indicates a reason to recuse the judge. Everyone else is wrong, and you are right. We get it.

This basic Q&A forum is not a good place to analyze a complicated case like this. You can meet some attorneys in private and get their opinion and...