Candidly, you owe the money. You may need to consult with a local bankruptcy attorney. You can sue your grandson for the money.

Not sure of the purpose of your post. This is a general Q&A Forum. Obviously you need to have an attorney represent you.

None of us can guess and, even if we did, it would be just that.

The agency itself is the place to start.

Your question doesn't make much sense. Your friend needs to speak with their attorney.

I can foresee some possible mitigating circumstances, but that only applies to sentencing. It is not a defense.

You need to be able to find them and serve them with a lawsuit.

Install a camera. Report illegal activity to the police.

Nothing actionable by what they said. I assume they will fire you for your language.

If you are being threatened call the police.