A lawsuit will cost you thousands and take years. This seems to be customer service screw up. Work with the utility company to resolve.

None of us has the facts and evidence your attorney has.

As your car was towed it seems you have answered your own question.

This is a Q&A forum. It is not a substitute for your own lawyer. This is obviously way too complicated for this limited info site.

I don't know who Anthony is or how he can assist. Best of luck.

On its face it seems you claim that she is treating you differently from other females, not that she is treating you differently because you are...

This is a general Q&A site. Solicitations not allowed.

You can contact the State Bar and file a fee complaint.

Perhaps consider hiring a private investigator and taking their conclusions to the DA.

If you were towed, it would seem you answered your own question.