Is there a question? Have you asked him not to do so?

"Can a judge deny my request?" "The judge denied my request." Seems like you answered your own question.

This is why you never buy a used car without having a mechanic check it out beforehand.

No. Your mom can file for 100% custody.........................

If you are a litigant, any correspondence with the judge must be served on the opposing counsel.

If you are saying she has sued you, then that answers the question of if she can sue you. but the rest of your post is confusing at best.

A violation of HIPAA is not a criminal matter.

I don't mean to downplay your concerns, but every day we get questions from pro se litigants saying the judge is biased against them, because they...

Certainly none of us volunteer lawyers knows why this happened.

If I drop a quarter on the ground it may land on its edge. It may not.