Somehow there is this notion that charges are just magically dismissed. They aren't. Lawyer up.

Probably none, but you can report it to the cops.

We are lawyers, not bookies. None of us knows what will happen.

You are an adult, and can make your own decisions, with their own consequences.

Your problem is that you admittedly lied to get into the military. That is a federal crime. So you need to be very careful how you approach this....

Yes......................................................................

Yes it is illegal. Speak to your parents.

What is the question you wished to ask?

Up to the her parents. Ask them........................

You need to start by calling the cops and then hire an attorney to look into suing.