Call the cops. But before you do so hire an attorney for your daughter, as she may have criminal liability.

You don't. No case, no subpoena........................................

This is not a legal issue. Perhaps family counseling.

Our opinion is pretty meaningless. It is up to a judge to decide.

Nothing you mentioned is for the courts to decide. Different parents have different styles. Not up to courts to decide.

This is not a matter for the courts. There is no threat of bodily harm.

Your post is hard to understand and makes no sense.

Yes. Commands frequently give service members orders they don't want.

Sounds like a scam.. Call the courthouse.......................................

Lawsuits are expensive and time consuming. Speak with customer service.