Candidly, mistakes happen. Glad your child wasn't harmed.

What is your question, if any??????????????????

Many of us have represented civilians in this context.

You will likely need to hire a PI to prove your claims........

Nothing at all improper with what you describe.........

There is nothing you can do. If you wind up in court, both of you will be required to provide all documents to the other side.

Your ex's lawyer's job is to represent your ex, not you. So yes, they can do this.

No you cannot. Perhaps your MIL can, but it would likely cost way too much to be worth it.

Up to your PO. But likely no..........................................

A lawsuit will cost you thousands and take years. Try going to see a JAG when you are on AT and see if they can direct you.