For a loan of this size, you should have an attorney draft a promissory note with all the terms laid out.

Citizens do not "press charges." You can report it to the police who will decide along with the state's attorney whether to prosecute.

I have never heard of "Unbundled" but it sounds like you get what you pay for. .........................

These are questions for your wife to ask her lawyer. You should not post details on the Internet..........

Legally you can but without a credit history I doubt you will find anyone to rent to you....................

Not IMO. Others may disagree.............................................................................

You can use Google, the AVVO Find a Lawyer feature or any other search mechanism.....................

You should probably hire a PI............................................................................

You can't. You have to finish high school, attend four years of college, three years of law school, and then pass the bar exam.

I am not sure who told you this, but it is false. You have to follow the court order or have it amended.