This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question. Nothing you described is illegal or improper..........

Google is your friend........................................................................................................

This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question. AVVO requires me to write more characters, so here they are.

We see similar questions every day. Can I be charged? I was charged. That answers the question. So, do the two things anyone charged with a crime...

This is a Q&A forum, not a place to find a lawyer. You can use the Find a Lawyer tab above. Best of luck.

You hire a lawyer, you pay their fees, and they file a lawsuit on your behalf. Certainly not a DIY project.

What a terrible thing to do. By her and potentially by you. This is not a legal issue. Get counseling..

The answer is "it depends." You should not be posting details on an open Internet site. Speak only to your lawyer.

You are asking why a 3rd party is doing something. We don't know. Best to call them and ask............

This is a Q&A forum, not a place to find a lawyer. You can use the Find a Lawyer tab above. Best of luck.