None of us can answer that with this little bit of info.

The way to sue them is to hire an attorney, pay their fees and court filing costs, and let the case proceed. But as noted above, I don't see it...

I don't imagine a judge would be very happy if your husband refused to turn over this info to the child's mom.

I don't think most judges would allow such a filing.

Thanks for letting us know. Did you have a question?

The first thing you should do is remove this post, in which you provide your personal info, and confess to a crime where the cops can see it....

A 20 year old adult who wants to have sex with a 16 year old child should seek mental health treatment.

This cannot be a serious question........

I am not at all sure what you are asking. But none of us can predict what might happen.

If your proposed solution is to hire an attorney to go for you and lie to the court about why you are not there, that is not going to happen.