No lawyer is going to risk a malpractice claim by giving you advice on a case we know nothing about.

This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question.

Are we to guess what kind of case this is? Kind of important to know.

You can request a refund of fees. You can see a local attorney about the possibility of filing a motion for reconsideration.

None of us can predict with what he will be charged.

You can, but don't be surprised if it doesn't go anywhere. The military doesn't tend to get involved in the personal lives of its soldiers. Plus,...

Ask your parents.....................................

Unfortunately, it sounds like your son was at fault.

In my experience in every divorce case everyone lies. This is not a DIY Project. You really need an attorney to protect your interests.

In my experience if you are doing this pro se, unlikely.