You do not need to meet with them. You would be wise to retain an attorney to interface with them on your behalf.

The days of the military getting involved in the domestic affairs of its service members are long gone.

Your post is unclear, and it is undoubtedly not Ellen DeGeneres but someone using her name.

Speak to a civil litigation attorney in your state........

Sure they can. And you can sue them in small claims court.

Not a legal issue. Ask them.................................

This is not a legal issue. It is up to your command. You would be wise to stick to it.

That's a question for a recruiter not a Lawyer

This is a Q&A Forum. You have not asked a question. But you can't become an adult until you are 18.

It's their forum, and their rules. Move on.