You counter those lies with your own evidence. It is obvious you need your own attorney.

Yes you can. If I drop drugs and run away I can still be charged.

Unfortunately we can't teach prisoner how to practice law in a couple of paragraphs on line.

You have nothing. You are not the victim. You can fight the charges.

You will have to choose between doing the work or seeking other employment.

Your name and address are public record........................

It is possible he may be required to pay for your lawyer. You need to meet with a local divorce lawyer in person and explore all your options.

None of us can predict, but obviously your odds of a successful outcome are much better with an experienced attorney.

If charged with a crime, hire the best lawyer you can afford. Your freedom is at stake.

This is not a HIPAA violation. Worry about your charges.