Significant risk you will both be arrested.................

The only way a lawyer can answer this is by reading your entire agreement. Consult a local consumer affairs lawyer.

Sounds like it was towed by the cops, not the hotel. Either way, she needs to get it out today, or the cost will just keep going up.

They are not required to least to you..............................

This is a Q&A Forum. You have not asked a question, but rather told us what is going on. You need counsel to properly defend you.

You can, but the cost of doing so will be more than $100.

Your post really doesn't make sentence. Perhaps try again.

None of us can predict what a jury is going to do, especially without seeing all the evidence.

If your lease says no grills, then you can't have a grill.

Their job, their choice of location. You can accept or refuse. Not a legal issue.