I have no idea what staped means, so I can't answer this.

I think you do, but an attorney is going to need to review the entire packet to give you a more educated opinion.

Up to her parents......................................................

This is not a legal issue. Recycle them, burn them, whatever.

I don't think you have any legal grounds to pursue.

I am guessing you already got the ticket, so the cops don't agree that it is legal. You will need to engage a local traffic ticket attorney.

Medical cases are incredibly expensive to pursue. The fact that you "are sure they made it worse" is meaningless. You will need another...

Who he dates is up to his parents..................................................

Does the sixth amendment cover employment cases? No it does not.

You can. One issue might be whether your vision issues mean you shouldn't be driving.