On what grounds can former spouse fight me getting custody of our son? Can this be done pro se? This request usually granted?

Filing pro se is a horrible idea. Even if you succeed, remember that the court will also address support, health insurance, a parenting plan and...

What happens if the NCp doesnt access there visitation?

WIthholding visitation is a very bad idea. It can land you in jail for contempt or even cost you custody. You can not simply defy a court order...

From what you posted, if you are not on the loan, a forecosure has no effect on your credit report. I'd need to know more details to properly...

My son is 19 yrs old and lives with us while attending college. Can I include him as a dependent for a chapter 7 means test?

If you show him as a dependent on your tax return and he is living at home, I suspect he can be on the means test. Since you are in a different...

I have been paying alimony for over 20 yrs can I stop now

That depends on the wording of the court order. Some allow modification and some do not. I'd have to see the orders to answer you. If it is...

My son has told me he gets abused at school

Bullying is a problem in school that should get your concern. Since you are in a contested custody case, you need to call your lawyer, who...

Does a gift property deed signed after the will was signed take presdent?

The property does not belong to you. A person is free to sell or give away property listed in a will. When they do that it ceases to be their...

I am thinking about doing a Strategic Foreclosure. What kind of attorney should I seek for advice? Real Estate? Foreclosure?

After the foreclosure you can (possibly) be sued for a deficiency and can then face garnishment, seizure of other assets, etc. I'd suggest...

What is the likely outcome to mis-battery charge?

You might get jail time, and regardless a guilty plea can also make you pretty much unemployable. So get a lawyer. If you cannot afford a...

Husband leaves dependant spouse and terminate insurance out of meaness. Is he guilty of anything?

If he is not paying child support, you can have him arrested for abandonment or set up with the state child support unit. Both of those steps are...