I was arrested for a theft by shoplifting felony.i am a first time offender of any crime,what is the worst judgement scenario?

You should hire a lawyer immediately to see if he/she can help get your case dismissed.

Are there grounds for a law suit if you are charged inaccurately and the charge haunts you still today?

You can under certain circumstances sue someone for being wrongly prosecuted but from what you have stated it sounds like there was nothing wrong...

I have been charged with 1 count of Theft by Taking for 400K. I am turning myself in, what am I looking at as a 1st offense.

Typically the more restitution you can pay upfront means the less time you will spend in jail.

What kind of time can he get or what other charges?

You are many factors that determine " what kind of time" he can get. I would go talk with a lawyer about the specifics of his case.

If I am assigned a Public Defender in which I am not satisfied with... what can I do? Can I drop him and hire a specialist?

You can always hire your own lawyer.

What will happen if you violate your first offender probation (felony) for a misdemeanor marijuana charge?

There is a chance he will have his first offender status revoked and he will go to prison.

Drunk in public. Obstruction and disorderly. How much trouble am i in

By hiring a lawyer, such as myself, it may be possible to get your charges dismissed. Please contact me if you would like to discuss this matter...

Can a 19 year old male date a 15 year old female, as long as nothing sexual occurs. Is it okay to kiss ?

No. It is not okay to kiss.

If my case was entered into abeyance will it still show up on my record...the judge and my attorney said it would not

If you were arrested and you have not taken steps to get that arrest expunged, then yes it will appear on your criminal history.

There are many issues in this case. You have a potential issue with both the issuance and execution of the search warrant. There is also the issue...