By your wording, I am assuming you ask who takes from her estate if she passes asway without a will. In that case, the husband and the two...

You petition for a successor administrator.

That would be a matter for you to discuss with your attorney.

Your VA compensation should be in addition to your Social Security, and VA compensation is non-taxable. Thank you for your service.

No one can say without getting a lot more facts from you, particularly your individual state of health. There may be other ways to accomplish your...

Start the eviction process on him. Nine times out of ten, once the process is started, the individual understands its serious and voluntarily...

See this link that lays out the procedure fairly well under the APA: https://sgp.fas.org/crs/misc/R46190.pdf

You should open an estate for him through the local probate court.

If its a joint account, then its your money you withdrew. Pay no attention to him and proceed with the divorce immediately.

Contact he bank and the police as well.