I was in training for the US Army and came back home fired from my state job?

Get a consult w/ a local employment attorney who understands USERRA--they're plenty in the DC area.

Am I required to pay my ex-spouse 1/2 of my disability if that is what I receive in lieu of retired pay?

You have to pay what you agreed to--if you need it changed, you have to seek a modification. Why aren't you still receiving military some...

They can come after the car, as well, for whatever equity you might have in it--you need a consult with a bankruptcy attorney

If you are capable of substantial gainful activity, then Social Security will turn you down flat.

How do I get charges dropped in my case against my boyfriend?

Its not your case--its the case of the local jurisdiction.

Can my exhusband who recieves veterans disability recieve benefits for our minor child with out my knowledge ?

He can claim the child as a dependent.

I stole my dads car and crashed it. Weeks later he repeatedly strangled and hit me. What I did was illegal, how about him?

from your description of the facts, you should have immediately called the police.

How to seek settlement for damage? Breach of contract, admin. negligence gender&disability discrimination. GA bar can ignore me?

Find a local attorney from the Brunswick area to assist you in this civil matter.

If I was disabled when my wife married me and she left me 11 months later should she pay me support

repeat question -- see the answer posted already

If the recruiter and the service accepts you; its theoretically possible. But you then forego the existing medical retirement and the VA...