I don't have the money for a divorce, I heard I could file through the newspaper. Is that correct?

No, you must file for divorce through the court--the newspaper is used to provide notice to him of the proceedings IF you cannot locate him.

What can I do?

You do so by engaging a family law attorney and dealing with the custody issue.

How do we remove a POA and healthcare sarrogate?

Do so by revocation of the existing documents and/or issuing new ones, naming new agents. If competency is lacking, then a guardianship will be in...

My wife as walk out on and started a relationship with a women and she toke one of are kids and the other stay with me

What do you do? You hire a local family law attorney immediately--there are many good ones in Carrollton.

Can Debt collectors collect a debt if there is no estate, all assets were jointly owned except a small retirement and coke stock

You need an estate attorney to assist you and advise as to "years support" or other options for the estate.

You can bring an action for a partition by sale to force the sale. Get a local attorney to assist you

Can I find a Lawyer to sue hospital for getting C-Diff?

You'll have to establish a violation of care by the hospital--get a medical malpractice attorney to assist you.

Am I entitled to death or child support benefits from my deceased father's estate or the government?

From these facts; I don't see anything as an entitlement from the gov't. As the only surviving issue, you certainly have a claim on his estate.

Does the Veteran's aid and attendance program apply to Elderly Independent Living facilities

Its a tiered program, based on medical need. Aid and attendance requires the assistance with at least 2 of the 6 ADLs--independent living won't...

How can I prevent my mother from making false accusations against me to have me committed into mental hospitals?

You'll have to stay away from her. Get a good psyche eval establishing your competency and consider a protective order to keep her from you