Am I entitled to retirement pay from my deceased military ex spouse?

Maybe, but only if he elected SBP (Survivor Benefit Plan) and named you as beneficiary.

I don't know what my brother in law was thinking but he left his son in the car while he ran into Walmart to grab a prescription

He needs to engage a criminal defense attorney immediately; his background and record should work in his favor.

Who will get the property in the divorce?

You can specifically refer to it in your settlement agreement.

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Use the AVVO "Find a Lawyer" feature.

I quit my job yesterday and now my ex boss and ex coworker are posting mean things about me on facebook.

You can notify corporate--that's about all you can do unless they are knowingly posting untruths.

I bought my ex husband a car and put it under his name because I didn't have a license at the time.

Were those vehicles addressed in your settlement agreement? That's the starting point.

Typically, no--the formality and extra effort required of executing a will is very compelling. Much more difficult to do that than craft some...

What kind of attorney do I need?

Start with an attorney who does landlord/ tenant work.

Do I need a family law lawyer and is it worth the fight?

If you are looking at a potential bill of $75,000 , yeah, I think you'd be well served to have counsel assist you--too much at risk here.

She can decline to continue to serve--best to do so in writing.