The handicapped placard is for your use, not her's. If misused, she needs to face the consequences of her actions.

VA will pay you whichever is the higher of the award of pension or compensation. Be aware, because pension is means tested, the service connected...

Your's is not a situation that can be asked and reasonably answered on AVVO's short-answer format. You need a consult with a local attorney,...

You can seek a guardianship over him and nominate the state (DHS) as the guardian. If he goes through the 1013 process again, advise his care team...

Sounds like a wrongful death claim--your son's estate would be the claimant, if the facts support it.

You would seek an accounting of the estate by filing a petition for same with the probate court. Best get a probate attorney to assist, so its...

You respectfully reach back out to the conservator and relay your concern. If the response is inadequate, you notify the probate court that...

You should ask VA to be substituted in on his VA pension claim, and then seek accrued benefits until the time of his death if the claim was in place.

Even if you are the only heir at law, having a well-drafted will makes the probate process simpler. It will facilitate probate greatly.

If he cannot provide consent that tells me he cannot sign a POA. Your alternative then is to pursue a guardianship through the local probate court.