Can he get a bond being in ice custody ?

No. Even if he was given a bond ICE is going to keep him.

This is most likely a scam. Do not have any further communication with this person and do not send them anything...photos, gifts, etc. They will go...

It is impossible to say without knowing more.

Is it illegal for a 23 year old male to have consensual sex with a 17 year old female?

The sex is legal, but he could be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor and/or custodial interference both of which are...

Is arrest for shoplifting the 2nd time considered a second offence if the 1st charge was dismissed?

If you are convicted it is a first offense, however, this is a second arrest. One more arrest and you are looking at felony charges.

Can I be told my sister and nephew can't stay the night?

You need to read your lease agreement and see if your landlord has the ability to exclude people from the premises.

They have 60 days to restrict/expunge your record after the charges are dismissed.

What possible outcome can I get from getting a lawyer?

You should hire a lawyer and get yourself into a diversion program. Once you complete the diversion program, the charges against you will be...

how do I go about getting charges expunged from my record that I was never charged with or prosecuted in court on?

You need to file for an expungement/record restriction. If you Google "Georgia Expungement Application" the link will come up.

Is it ok to tape a conversation with Social Security representatives in Ga?

Georgia is a one party consent state when it comes to recording phone calls so you may record the call.