Can I file a harrasment charge against my sons father?

You can apply for a temporary protective order so he cannot have any contact with you.

What are my options to get this dismissed or bring the charges down?

You may want this done and over with, but make sure you take the necessary steps to ensure this doesn't mess up your future. Hire the best lawyer...

If you missed your court date there should be a warrant for your arrest, and DDS is supposed to be notified so they can suspend your license....

These tickets can be very difficult to win as the burden of proof on the prosecution is low. The good news is these are civil violations, and they...

Fleeing and eluding, reckless driving

No. Not at all. If you are convicted/plead guilty/Nolo you cannot have the charge expunged. This charge will also suspend your driver's license.

Please advise of predicted outcome of charges; details below:

It is impossible to predict what a jury will do. It sounds like you have a favorable fact pattern to work with.

Is the penalty for theft by shoplifting not 1-5 years for under $5,000?

If the amount you allegedly took is over $500 this is a felony, and is punishable by 1 to 10 years in jail.

Should I seek legal representation for my up-coming Arrest Warrant Hearing or would I be able to conduct this by myself?

These hearings are usually pretty user friendly, and I do not think you will need a lawyer. You will simply tell the judge what happened. Bear in...

Maybe or maybe not. These types of situations are very fact specific. It would be in your best interest to sit down with an attorney, and go over...

How do i file a motion to move a traffic ticket in texas from one court to another

You need to post this question under the Texas Criminal Law Forum as Texas Law will dictate the answer.