When a secured e-mail from a friend is shared with her employer and then shares the e-mail with my employer is that illegal?

There is nothing illegal in this scenario as the individual did not owe you a legal duty of privilege.

What should I do?!

Don't talk to anyone without a lawyer. They often promise not to seek criminal charges, and then they do anyway.

What do I do next and is my license going to be suspended?

It sounds like Atlanta bound your case over to Fulton County instead of issuing a Failure To Appear against you. This is not uncommon. If this is...

Hire a lawyer. You may be able to get this charged reduced. The military will not take you while you are on probation even if it is non-reporting...

IF I SIGN AN AFFIDAVIT TO DROP CHARGES AGAINST MY BOY FRIEND FOR CRACKING MY PHONE WOULD THE CHARGES BE DROPPED?

Maybe. The decision to prosecute is up to the prosecutor, and not you.

Can I get a forgery felon expluged

It depends on how you disposed of the case.

If a father in on felony probation (drugs) and is not making his child support payment can you report this to his prob officer

Yes. Supporting one's dependents is usually a condition of probation.

I have a felony probation violation in dekalb. Will they come looking for me in gwinnett

They will most likely come looking for you.

Will I be able to teach in the state of Georgia with a hit and run on my record?

Speak with your attorney, and have him handle the case in a manner where the charge may be expunged.

I live in the state of Georgia, how would you interpret this from the law here

At best it is a terroristic threat, but she needs a third party who overheard the threat. Also, the threat is condition because you said "if."...