What is the best course of action when I go to court? I dont want points, but also want to avoid as much of the fine as possible

Go to court, and participate in their pre-trial diversion traffic program. You'll pay $150, and they'll dismiss the citation so it does not go on...

Yes. This is definitely against the law.

Someone posing as a mental health professional.

Contact the police, and see if you can locate this person.

What do I need to do in the 10 day time limit for appealing a suspension on the FL side and the GA side with the DMV?

You need to consult with a FL lawyer so they may advise you on stopping the suspension in Florida.

I have a credit card trans. fraud felony, and was wondering if that would disqualify me from obtaining my insurance license?

There probably is not a bar per se, but I'm sure they are going to have some serious questions for you regarding your application, and this charge.

Show up, and tell the judge you want it cancelled.

What can we expect if he doesn't to complete the steps to resolution after court (probation requirements) and returns to the US?

You can expect a warrant to be issued for his arrest, and he will be arrested when he tries to come through customs.

How long does it usually take to hear back from the appeal counsel? Do i need to have a lawyer during this process?

What kind of appeal have you filed?

Why would he be charged with possession of a firearm by a convicted felon

He cannot posses, or be around firearms. The fact a gun was in the house is enough for him to be charged.

Does my employer have the right to tell my family I failed a drug test and what I failed for? Does it violate any privacy laws?

Most likely they can. Also, you have to prove damages before you can have a lawsuit. While this may be embarrassing has this actually cost you a...