Can my wife use a video of me privacy of our home (no kids) of me yelling and using profanity (no threats of violence)

I don't believe she can use the video. If it was just an audio recording she could, but videos are different.

As long as you have been in good standing, and have been admitted in another state for 5 years, you should be able to waive in to Georgia.

What are the chances of the state dropping the chances on my request or issuing less penalties for the charges

You can let the prosecution know you do not wish to prosecute him, but the decision to proceed is entirely up to the prosecutor.

What is a statement that I can turn in stating I no longer want to go to court regarding a tpo?

Don't go to court, and the TPO will be dismissed. However, he needs to make sure he is there so it will be dismissed.

Recently received a speeding ticket and officer put down incorrect race. Could I have my ticket dismissed?

No. This has nothing to do with whether or not you were speeding.

What do I need to do?

Charges must be filed within 2 years of the incident date for a misdemeanor.

Is there a standard length of time in which a grand jury in a small municipality has to rule on a case? I was told four days.

They usually report to the clerk on Friday. They may not have indicted you.

My bf got charged with hit and run, possession of meth / marijuana and weapons with guard lines with out permission of warden an

This is standard behavior for the public defender. If he can afford an attorney he needs to hire one.

How can I get it restricted. The police dept says if arrest isn't showing on the record then the restriction can't be processed

You can only apply to have your GCIC, and court/jail records, restricted. Any other information cannot be restricted.

What will I be charged with for hitting a minor

You could be charged with battery, or cruelty to children. However, it sounds like you could have a self defense or defense of another claim.