What are my chances of going to court and getting it dropped down 6 mph so it won't effect my insurance if i get to explain it?

With 3 speeding tickets at 19, your best bet is to hire an attorney.

Do people take female criminal defense lawyers seriously?

I can't believe this question was asked. One of my friends is a very young criminal defense attorney and trust me, she's very respected.

Its not quite clear what happened with your case based on the information that you provided. However, you might qualify for some type of program...

How can i not go back to jail. What can i do to keep from going to jail.

You shoud hire a lawyer or contact the local public defender asap.

What happens if the minor refuses to cooperate?

Doesn't matter if the minor refuses to talk to law enforcement. They can charge you if they have reasons to believe the allegations are true. Speak...

What if I press charges and she continues to be uncooperative, is she in trouble?

If the prosecution attempts to call her as a witness and she refuses, she could be. However, given her age and the situation nothing will likely...

If defense request the defendant to testify, can the judge not allow it?

The defendant has a right to testify.

If i go to traffic court and lose can the judge give me a larger fine than the one on my ticket?

A judge can give the maximum fine no matter what your ticket says.

Can my son plead nolo and if he can what would be done

Pleading nolo will not "get off" your son. He needs to hire an attorney so all of his options can be discussed.

Friend on Work Visa charged with eavesdropping. What are his options?

Your friend should speak with his attorney