How can I have my lawyer fight on my behalf? She seems to be allowing the other party to run the show. What should I do?

Easy solution - hire another lawyer.

What happens if someone in your apartment building puts a restraining order against you in rhode Island?

A restraining order is very serious and no one here knows the details. See a lawyer immediately.

Evict my wife from an apartment where lease is signed after issuing divorce notice ?

You do not own the property and that would be a very good way to get the landlord to evict you both. Find a new place to live.

II get off probation today and I don't know how much I owe the probation officer ?

Call the probation office and ask ??

10 years ago I signed a quit claim deed to my daughter. she wants me to take it back sell it and spend the money. Can we do that

No, any competent real estate lawyer in your are can handle that pretty easily (or let you know of any issues).

Should I wait on getting my car registered due to getting a replacement instead of a regular title. Should i sue for value drop

You leave out the details about why you believe anything is inappropriate or that the car is worth less because of a replacement title.

You failed to include any details of how the landlord is "forcing" you to sign a new lease and it is odd that you believe the landlord offering a...

Can i legally go pick up a car i paid for and never got paid back?

You paid who for the car? Pick it up from where? Who has it? Who owns the car?

Can my landlord insist on cash payment?

The missing bit of information is why the landlord is insisting on cash. Otherwise, unless there is a contract saying so another party generally...

What can i do?

No one here has the contract and your post does not really make much sense. If the other party has a lawyer then the answer to your question is to...