Have you contacted Enterprise to ask them this question?

Seeing a lawyer to review the documents (which we do not have) is the right course of action.

If i get illness from black mold exposure at a hotel, can i sue?

If it is a hotel, what is stopping you from simply leaving and going to another hotel? At some point there is assumption of the risk.

The first question, before spending thousands of dollars, is whether the username actually identifies anyone and what is the harm done. Obviously...

How could anyone possibly know how much you owe?

The person who can, and just might, answer your question is the Judge in your case. It is possible you will not get much sympathy for letting the...

Notice to "quit" a property as of a certain date. Can I now stay? (Notice was not through the court (i.e.not a court order)).

As you say you have a lawyer, that is the person to ask.

How can I take an arrest off my record ?

You do not say what "record" but the outcome does not erase all prior records of what happened.

How do they charge passenger with everything and not driver

That is a question for the lawyer for the person charged, who can review all the facts.

What can I do?

You and your daughter's part of what? Assuming you mean his tax refund you post not facts to support you are entitled to any.