Is this how this works?

You did not get a free house, if that is what you are asking, and your lawyer surely discussed that with you when your case was filed back in 2011.

Do I have to pay are is there a stature of limitation

It is not at all clear what you are asking. What happened in your Chapter 13? Just filing a case doesn't really do anything in the long term. ...

My question is how long should it take after doing everything asked to finally sign the papers to file?

You need to call your lawyer's office tomorrow morning to discuss your case. There is no way anyone here can can tell you to get a new lawyer with...

Is this considered negligence?

None of this makes any sense at all. You are in college and work at a pizza place and you are getting a home loan? Or worse, co-signing for a home...

How do I take back this property?

A mistake about the boundaries is not adverse possession, so you have nothing to take back. By definition, it is not "adverse." You can google all...

You have to look at it both ways. If you could just remove a "roommates" name from a deed, they could be asking a lawyer how to remove YOUR name...

Is there anything ethnically wrong here?

You have posted the same question (with varying facts) multiple times, but no one here is going to second guess your lawyer just based on a few...

What recourse do we have?

It is two completely separate issues. If he does not comply with his lease, your remedy is to evict him and sue for any rent and damages he owes. ...

You will just have to make very sure you keep all your finances (accounts, cars, house) separate for as long as this continues to be an issue (and...

Can I somehow get my name off the card and get it into my mom's name or my dad's name?

I am sure you really know the answer - you made a choice to charge this bill the same as if you had bought something at Target for yourself.