If a website has a TOS but it does not state anywhere that you must agree to said TOS to make a purchase do you have to obey it?

If you go into a store and they have a sign with the return policy you "agree to and obey" it by making a purchase.

Can I recover damages on a contract

No. You can't recover damages on a contract when there is no contract. It was your choice to not give them a deadline or to seek other bookings.

What can i do legally about being ordered to comply then reinjured myself?

No you can't sue code enforcement and they don't have to accept your excuse. You can show up in court and tell your side. Whether or not you are...

Can a doctor refuse surgery if the know the condition could be fatal if not treated?

You are asking for lawyers to second guess the doctor based on one sentence?

How and where would we go to add my name to deed

It seems that would be something important to both of you and you would want to make sure it is done correctly rather than for free or a few dollars.

How much is the fee to switch over a house deed that was in my mother name and i need to have the deed put into my name

That is a question for the lawyers in your area that you contact.

It does not matter what you think is fair. You have a contract for insurance. You did not insure "taxes and all I paid."

What can i do about my credit card company selling my citibank credit card debt to a collection agency when I'm in chapter 7

Creditors sell or assign debts all the time, in or out of bankruptcy. Nothing in your post indicates it is a problem.

Can I return my truck that I bought 2 days ago?

Generally if you bought "as is" that is exactly what it means. You should always get an independent inspection, but something you could see with a...

Should I get a lawyer

Your post makes no sense. How could we know who "they" are or what they are "coming after you?"