Will it be kidnap if I go take my son

Possibly, especially if you don't have legal custody of your son.

Heed the answer by counsel from your state.

Question; Writing a special appearance letter to presiding judge in a bench trial Sufficient ?

If having a trial, you need a lawyer. Hire your own or request a public defender.

Heed the answer by counsel from your state.

Why a police can take me out of my car without even telling me the reason?

The law does not say a policeman must give a reason for detaining/arresting someone. If he had a warrant for your arrest or actually saw you...

How many days ?

This is a question best-suited for a Rhode Island criminal defense attorney.

Yes, you can be charged, which would also lead to a probation violation. Both you and your daughter-in-law need your own, separate attorneys.

Need advice to help cousin arrested for driving with a suspended license on his way to college, as he was on probation for a DUI

You are right: He needs a lawyer. The family should get him one ASAP to avoid his getting another conviction on his record and probation...

I missed a call in with my probation?

Sounds like you have covered yourself pretty well. Hope you have good explanation for why you missed the call. It would be wise to consult a...

I was suppose to report on may 9th and i forgot well my car is tore up so i cant make it today will i have a warrert?

The answers are Yes and Yes to your 2 questions. You need a good defense lawyer.