I'm divorced my ex is taking to try to get custody for the 2 xin one year

Call your local bar association and local court. The may be able to help. Good luck.

Do I qualify for annulment?

Generally, to get an annulment there needs to be fraud or some other reason you would not have married had you known, Divorce is always available....

What happens if you are told to pay 71K in equitable distribution and your house doesnt sell for that much or it is forclosed on

He could be found in contempt. As long as he makes an honest attempt to pay, he will probably avoid jail. SEEK LOCAL LEGAL REPRESENTATION. Good luck

Can my husband still get his greencard if i choose to divorce him after three years of marriage?

If entered in good faith all should be fine. SEEK LOCAL LEGAL REPRESENTATION. Good luck.

Can i file uncontest divoces if husband was deported to his homeland ??? And file divorce on my own ??? no property/no children?

You can file an uncontested divorce if your husband agrees to service and trial , along with an agreement resolving all issues of property,...

Does common law hold up in NY

If you are legally married in another jurisdiction you will need to end that marriage by a divorce decree. Good luck.

Is there a way to petition for someone after divorcing them ?

After divorce she is no longer a relative. Good luck.

You have to comply with the court order. If this is discovery you must comply unless you can show that the information is irrelevant or there is no...

Wife had a affiar I move out 17 May 2010 Can she file for abandonment. I would like to start are marriage over, with forgivness

Probably not. SEEK LOCAL LEGAL REPRESENTATION.Good luck.

What can i do if my husband violates a seperation/parenting agreement, does not pay alimony or the mortgage as promised?

You can file a contempt action (may be different name in NJ) which requires the respondent to perform as ordered of face confinement. SEEK LOCAL...