The gratuitous promise is likely not enforceable against the estate. If there is more to it than this, talk with an attorney. The family would have...

Or you could do nothing. Property management company cannot collect without suing. You could resist this effort if they sue. If they don't.....

You sue them. You report them to the police or...

Order the death certificate yourself from vital records. The wife does not have any obligation to provide you with a death certificate.

You are likely going to make a mess. Choose an executor to sell the house and split the proceeds among the heirs. You can leave a house to three...

If the taxes are not paid, the land will be taken by the county. That will 'handle' the land............................

To get the insurance policy to pay out, you likely need a death certificate, not a birth certificate. You can order this from vital records.

If POA existed, POA ended when your father died. Sure, he can refuse to answer you. Why does he owe you an answer? If you had control of your...

Obtain an attorney and ask the court to order an accounting of the estate, if the father has probated the mother's estate. If the father has not...

Probate mother's estate and take charge of mother's estate. If contested, you could at least get the county administrator appointed. The county...