presumably the motion for a new trial was filed in Alabama, and you will have to consult an Alabama lawyer to find out whether the motion has any...

In general, the state with jurisdiction is the home state of the child. From what you say it appears SC has jurisdiction of the divorce and custody...

If I live in Gwinnett county and my spouse lives in Bremerton WA. Can I file for divorce here

In general jurisdiction follow the children. The divorce action should be brought in Washington.

I filed for a divorce the 29th of June. I slept with her the the 29th of July can i still get a divorce?

No. You must live in a boifide state of separation before filing the complaint. Dismiss the case and start over.

How do I get back child support payment that was never paid?

If the amount is significant, retain counsel to file a motion for contempt.

Can my soon to be Ex cancel health, Vision, dental Insurance before Divorce is final?

It's arguably a violation of the standing orders that issued upon filing the petition. Have an attorney review the paperwork before filing a motion...

What is child support supposed to be used for? Can it be used to help provide their shelter, in addition to clothes, shoes, food

Child support includes shelter, food clothing and necessities. If you are diverting child support you owe to pay for shelter that is a different...

How long can I keep my divorce open?

Talk to your lawyer. You should have one. In general It’s up to the assigned judge. Some have calendar calls, others let it go for a year or more.

Have been separated 3 years my ex lives in Charleston SC I live here in Georgia

Avvo policy is not to advertise fees. It's easy to find out by calling a few law firms.

How can I retrieve my car keys from why wife?

The courts will not police your marriage. You can bring the matter to the court for resolution in a divorce action. Consult with an attorney first.