Is it legal for a 23 year old male to have consensual sexual intercourse with a 17 year old female?

Yes, though the 23-year-old could potentially face other charges depending on all the facts and circumstances.

Would you tell me if this sounds like a good deal or not ? Had a VOP and waiting for PDC.

The time for hiring a lawyer would have been BEFORE he was sentenced on the probation revocation. Tough to say whether he got a good deal or not. ...

I'd rather work than go to probation

Then I guess you'd rather go to jail once your probation is revoked for not reporting. Why don't you find out if you can report by mail or phone.

Can I get an obstruction misdemeanor dropped?

This sounds like a questionable charge. You'll need to get a lawyer's help.

The statute of limitations for felony drug charges is four years.

Will I be able to get my felony expunged ?

Convictions can't be expunged. Did you plead guilty pursuant to the first offender act?

You're on the right track. Hire a lawyer familiar with the court where your tickets are.

What do I do in this situation ?

This is an easy question to answer. Hire a lawyer immediately.

So there's this 17 year old girl and I have a gf who is 14 and I love my gf but is it wrong to talk to this 17 year old girl ?

I am unclear how you view this as a sex crime question through the lens you are looking at this. Cheating on a girlfriend is not a crime. Your...

Should I mark "yes" when asked have I been convicted of a felony?

If you are currently and successfully serving a first offender sentence without having been adjudicated guilty, you are not a convicted felon.