Will my mom be the sole beneficiary ?

Maybe not the retirement but as to the property it would depend on the circumstances and the deed. She need to sit down with an attorney to...

What can I do if I was ordered to pay child support for a child (that I did not know existed) without a DNA test ?

You can pay for a DNA test yourself in order to have it done.

What should I do if a gas can blows up in my face at work?

You should provide notice to your employer, go to the doctor, and see a worker's compensation attorney.

How can I remove my name from a quit claim deed my husband filed on a house he purchased after we married?

Clearly you are in need of an attorney so that the entire picture can be reviewed. Retain an attorney to represent you.

I just closed on the family estate ordered by probate judge. Can a civil judgement come against me the administrator.

The short answer is yes you can be sued as the administrator of an estate.

You have a lawyer. Consult with the lawyer you have and follow that advice. That lawyer knows more about your situation than anyone on this site.

What are my options?

If an attorney is not involved with the service, then you probably got scramed. The only option you have is to sue them if you can find them.

How to find my friend a free lawyer or pro bono lawyer

Your friend need to request a court appointed attorney.

Will child support end if mother does not grant legitimation

Child support obligation does not go away. Also a judge grants legitimation and not the mother.

My girlfriend violated state probation for the first time for not paying and reporting

Without knowing more about the case, your questions can not be properly answer. Hire an attorney to represent her. She need an attorney.