Would a disorderly conduct count as a criminal offense or an offense that I need to notify them of?

There is not enough information here to properly answer your question. So I would say it depends on if you were charge under state law or under a...

Your next step should have been your first step, retain an attorney.

What do I do? Who can represent me? What are my chances of not getting any jail time, tarnished record or fines?

The best thing you can do is to retain an attorney. There may be options that can be worked out.

Can I be denied being executor for removing funds from this joint account?

You need to go and sit down with an attorney to discuss this matter a sap.

Can I be denied being executor for removing funds from this joint account?

Get your self in to see an attorney a sap!!!!! It will be well worth the money you will spend.

How do you file for a divorce with minor toddlers, but do not seek to file for child support or alimony of any kind?

You file by allowing an attorney to do so on your behalf. It is very unlikely that a judge will grant a divorce where minor children are involved...

How can i get her out of jail? Will she get the medical care she so desperately needs?

It may be possible but she need and attorney. Retain an attorney for her.

What is my recourse? What can I do to recoup my money and get this corrected with the court?

You need to consult with an attorney. The entire file need to be reviewed.

What should I expect in court

You need to retain an attorney to represent you in this matter. You could be facing some serious jail time.

Can I keep my daughter away from her father, legally?

The correct legal answer has already been given, however, you would be hurting the child by keep the child away from the father. Has the father...