Is their a timeframe rule for receiving a Rule Nisi/ "temporary hearing" date ? 1, 5, 10 days before hearing?

What kind of case is it? What is it about? If it is important you need a lawyer.

What if I did not receive a 60 notice before an eviction notice?

Presuming you are a tenant at will, yes, she is required to give you 60 days notice/demand for possession before she can file the eviction. Have...

Is it considered an eviction if your landlord files eviction papers but you move before the process completes

Yes they can evict, and if you just leave without abiding the terms of the lease that is exactly what they should do.

Can I sell my home without my wife's consent?

You can stop paying and let the place be foreclosed on, or you may sue to partition the property, but it may be that either of those two things...

Can I sue a friend who has not paid me money back that I loaned

Is there a written/signed loan document? A verbal contract can be enforced, but it may be more difficult to prove. How much was the loan?

Can you be charged for next months rent after you have moved out with every month accounted for,and have given a 30 day notice?

It is not a violation of Ga law and it is not extortion. You failed to give the 60 days notice required by the lease.

Have any laws been broken

The answer will be contained in your written lease. What does the lease state about early termiantion? If there is no early termination...

Yes the covenants can be changed, pursuant to the rules set out in the bylaws.

How long can an eviction take?

Presuming you are a tenant at will, the "landlord" is required to give you 60 days notice to quit the premises, after that time they can file the...

Is this child support fraud and if so is there any recourse?

You are very unlikely to recover any support already paid. You need to file a petition to modify the child support amount based on her new,...