How can my twins have their stepfathers last name?

Not sure what you are looking to do here. Just do the factual thing. Put the actual biological father on the certificate. If you do not want that...

What can i file other than a request for order, how do i file it out best to my ability?

That really is all you can file, if there is a custody order that he is not obeying. Or, if you have a custody order that clearly states the kids...

Shouldn't an attorney advise a client about pros/cons of paying attorney fees vs. in pro per and having fees waived?

1) the fees that can be waived were only the few dollars that the court itself required for accepting the paperwork. It would not affect any fees...

Can I get visitation with my nieces baby my niece was murdered in Nov.2016 and the father is in prison. His mother has the baby

You can try and get visitation through court. But there is no right that you have to visitation with a niece's child, especially when she is...

What can I do report the car stolen?

Call the police.

If neither volunteer, you may have to sue both. Go see who has the easement for the drain on your property. The deed records will say that. Then...

Do I need to contact DSS

That's the best place to start.

Can a nurse lose her license because of a hippa violation

Maybe. A lot of that is not up to you. Complain to the hospital. Complain to the licensing authority. Take her to court for contempt of the order.

How to get my paid deposit back from a business that has cashed it 4 months ago?

If they are refusing to refund as required, you may need to sue.

Can I decide to live with my mother and aunt?

It could, yes. But sometimes the police do not take action about such matters. You never know if you will get one of the officers that will or...