Can I pay the remaining amount off since its only 5 monthsl left before my daughter turns .18

Not sure what you are asking. Perhaps? If you are overpaying and there is a state agency keeping track, you may be able to do that. But why? Why...

Is there any way around the restraining order so I could see her or talk to her legally?

The order only prevents her from calling you, not the other way around. But be aware that if you call her and dad knows it, you will get in trouble...

A person who is not a relative somehow acquired custody of my relative and created this saga. What can I do?

You? Nothing. There is a court order that committed her, and treatment being done by professionals that have determined it necessary. This isn't...

During holiday visiting time does the non custodial parent have to adhear to activities that the custodial parent scheduled

Look over your order to see how conflicts like this must be resolved. Usually when a parent has parenting time, that parent is in complete control....

Once the papers are signed and notarized what do I do?

You file them with the court, serve them on dad as required by law, and have your hearing. The clerk should be able to give you the right forms and...

What can we do to better our chances in court? How can we stop her can we keep my step daughter here without police involvement

You need an attorney for this. The custody orders should detail if and how mom can move the child. Dad needs to fight that. I assume the original...

Can we gain access to her and can they still press charges?

1- Age of consent in OH is 16, so probably not. Unless the sex happened prior to her being 16. Then maybe. 2- Yes, you can get access, but you...

Do I have to allow her to post pictures of my daughter?

He does have the right to post pictures, and so does she. You may not like that, but absent a custody order saying that he/she cannot do so, your...

Is it too late to report this, and how can I get my babies back without fear of ruining all of our lives and a load of money?

It is not too late. Call the police and report him. File for a domestic violence restraining order and ask for the kids to you. And get counseling....

As the mother, your rights to the child are established. As a possible father, his are not unless there is an order of paternity, a voluntary...